Miss V

Am I a Quitter?

2010-06-02T23:04:00.002-04:00

I'm starting to think I am.

It's just so much easier to start and not finish things.

The problem is not about doing the work; it's having the patience to see it completion.

Am I patient enough to wait another 6-9 months if there's an opportunity to leave earlier?

The acheivements that I will obtain, is it anything different than I've already done in the past?

Time to revamp that CV some more...

Has it been THAT long?

2010-03-25T17:24:00.002-04:00

I guess it has!

Seeds that were planted last year has started to bloom.

Some REAL changes are coming and I have full control to drive it the way I want....or at least get things setup so it can be executed by other ppl.

Meaning...let's hope I find another home to move to, perhaps one that will allow me to move back into the city. Oh, how I miss the city.

And a home that will give me the opps for development of course...always looking for that growth!

Whiner whiner, Pants on Fire

2009-07-27T12:28:00.002-04:00

Hate it when ppl complain and whine when they have the power and ability to drive change.

All whine and no action.

4 Months In

2009-07-08T20:11:00.002-04:00

It's almost been 4 months since I started my new job. I'm getting a hang of it though there is still a lot more to learn. I can confidently say though that I would likely be moving on to something else after 2 years. Not to say that I would've learned it all, but at least I would've learned enough that I would like to be in other parts of the business.

There isn't a whole lot else going on ...did I mention the weather sucks this summer?

Once again unemployed

2009-03-06T22:21:00.002-05:00

1 week of unemployment, then I'm off to another new adventure!

I must say, it felt really good leaving it all behind. Especially to something that I'm confident is MUCH better. It's also interesting to see how most ppl from my ex-workplace just glaces over when I tell them what my new job is. Since most of these ppl have never done anything but Marketing,..anything remotely geekier just goes over their heads.

This weekend will be a home finding weekend for me. Have a lot of viewings for purchase and a few more for rental. This is the weekend, something will have to work out.

Taxes and packing next week....what a great way to spend my week off between job. *sigh*

Not just wishful thinking anymore!

2009-02-25T23:23:00.002-05:00

Let's see, where did I leave off on my last post....yes, I was quite miserable given my work situation. But fear not! RIM to the rescue!

I was actively seeking for employment with them and one day, I got an email of a job match. Not only was this a job match, it's THE job match. I will fully be able to use my skills and previous work experience for this job! It all happened like a whirlwind, first it was an email, then a phone call, then 3 in-person interviews and a week later, *POOF*, I got a new job.

New job starts March 16th, last day at old job is March 6th, so I get a little break to get myself together. Reminder: RIM in Waterloo, not Toronto. So I need to move.

As my good friend SK says, this may just be the 1 stone that would kill 3 birds, shitty job, living at home and ahem...the relationship situation.

Wish me luck!...for what you say?! Finding a place to live in the next couple of weeks!

New Year, New Beginnings? Or just wishful thinking?

2009-01-07T20:11:00.002-05:00

Hi all! Happy New Year!

I haven't posted in AGES. Perhaps because I've been busy bitching about 2008! Like my friend Edo, who's done a quick an dirty update on his page, I shall follow suit...that way, y'all be up to date on what's been going on.

Career Updates
I continued on with my MBA degree and officially finished my classes by end of May 2008. The exchange was not what I expected but I got the credits needed to complete my program (that's the important part). Came back to Canada early June and started my job search. The first month was spent doing networking with the next month on some interveiws and mostly job apps. I officially started work in August with a Canadian Telco firm as a Marketing Program Manager. The job description is a lot more glamourous than the actual work. The work environment was also overrated (or perhaps I should say my group does not culturally match the rest of the company). Either way, I soon realized I need to make changes. However, with the "economic crisis" upon us and the fact I only started this job, it was a little difficult to find somthing new.

Home Front
I have sinced moved out of Kingston and back to my mom's home in Toronto. Since the job is still in the "uncertain" category, I am holding off on buying another place. So storage locker it is.

Personal Life
I've made some new friends from my exchange program and re-acquainted with some old ones. I can officially use "It's Complicated" to describe my relationship status.

Travels
Kingston for the first quarter of the year, then I spent 2 months in Nagoya, Japan for my exchange. Within those 2 months, I went to Miyajima, Kyoto and Nara. Then I dropped by Hong Kong for a week's visit before heading back to Toronto early June. The last week of December, I flew down to St. Maarten/Anguilla/St. Kitts for a week's holiday. The whole point was to visit my good teammate from my MBA class. I had a great time and will hopefully return to Anguilla to visit him and his family this year.

What's new for 2009???
Well, I hope to do the following:
- Finalize my relationship status (wishful thinking?)
- Find a new job, career path
- Move out of my mother's
- Win the 15M lottery this Friday??? LOL....I SO wish.

Hopefully, I have more exciting news to come soon such that I can provide more updates. I know, I've been lazy for the past few months...just that I haven't been at the best place and honestly don't feel like whining to the whole world! Happy thoughts only for 2009!

I wish everyone a healthy and prosperous new year! Talk soon.

Gotsa move

2008-09-04T21:49:00.002-04:00

I'm surrounded by undoubtedly the loudest talkers around. Loud enough for me to hear their entire telephone conversation. And there is no end, one ends and another begins...endless one sided conversations that I can't block out of my mind.

Have to get a confirmation tomorrow on the cube that I have an eye on...these ppl are driving me NUTS.

Let the Games Begin

2008-08-28T21:41:00.002-04:00

The art of walking that fine line in getting the help and information you need from jerk types is something I haven't had to deal with for a long time. I've almost forgotten what it's like to play that game.

Sucks being a newbie.

Ironic

2008-08-21T22:46:00.003-04:00

It is so me for something like this to happen. Everything that I did not want is all here. GAWD, I could've moved back to Asia and wouldn't know the difference.

It's meeting the man of my dreams
And then meeting his beautiful wife
And isn't it ironic...don't you think
A little too ironic...and, yeah, I really do think...

What can you take away from 4 days?

2008-08-09T21:03:00.002-04:00

A lot...a lot can be decoded in 4 days.

I already know that this is going to be a great learning experience and stepping stone for my long-term career goals. I just need to stay focused and not be distracted by bad stress. Another year later and it will be another adventure. =)

Work Starts Aug 5th, 2008

2008-07-27T19:51:00.002-04:00

It's with a Canadian Telco firm, it's a Program Manager role within a marketing function.

Very strategic, very marketing, very client focused. The only part missing is that it's not a fashion retail firm! It's very comforting to know that I did not waste my money, time and energy for the past 13 months...I managed to change my career and found something that I would really like to do! (I think...will update you later after I've started work. :p)

Thanks everyone who's supported me through this job search process! (and the chaos since September) Things are finally looking up. :D

It's been a month...

2008-07-02T21:22:00.002-04:00

since I've come home...unfortunately, this post doesn't bring any good news of a new job...I'm still doing my search, still doing those applications, still trying to network...

I must say, it's a very disappointing process...especially when you're trying to change careers.

Otherwise things are mmm..."different". Living at home again, not working...wow, feels like the first time I graduated from university!

Will Soon Leave...Sayonara Nihon!

2008-05-11T06:15:00.002-04:00

I have 2 more weeks of school left in Nagoya and I can't wait to finish! Japan has been interesting and fun thus far but I must say that I am growing a little bored of this homogenous community. I purchased myself a ticket back to Hong Kong to visit family the week after classes, then I will fly back home to Toronto to begin the next phase of my life => hopefully with a new and exciting career!

I decided not to travel anymore in Japan as I think I've seen enough. Yes, I understand there is still a lot to see but I think I've seen the most historical and cultural locations and on top it all, I just can't be bothered with planning a week of travels. I will focus my time in Hong Kong to complete some job applications instead. The thought of not having a job yet is starting to weigh on me and I don't think I can put off looking for one anymore. That week will help me focus before going back to Toronto.

Wish me luck, let's hope the next post will be good news on the job front!

One Month In

2008-04-29T02:13:00.009-04:00

Well, I've officially been in Japan for over a month now....I went to Miyajima/Hiroshima a few weekends back and it was a wonderful trip. (Even better if minus the food poisoning) Classes have picked up a little though I just say I am a little disappointed with the quality of thec classes and students. It is however a good thing that I am not doing ALL my electives here or else I would be really upset!
Just this past weekend, I went to Kyoto and Nara for a 3-day trip with two other classmates. There is certainly a lot of things to see and we've only scratched the surface. Maybe I will head back to Kyoto if time permits. I still have to decide as to where I want to go for my last week here in Japan. Perhaps climb Mt. Fuji and visit Tokyo?
Here are some highlight pics so far...

Five Storey Pagoda - Miyajima

Itsukushima-Jinja's Floating Torii - Miyajima

Tahoto Pagoda - Miyajima

Maikos (don't think they are Geisha status) and me - Kyoto

Fushimi Inari Shrine - Toriis galore! - Kyoto

Kiyomizu-dera - Kyoto

Kinkakuji Temple - Kyoto

First trip planned

2008-04-04T09:30:00.002-04:00

Today, I received confirmation from a ryokan in Miyajima for a 2-night stay. Bus tickets was also purchased to Hiroshima today so I am set for next weekend!

The itineary will be a night bus to Hiroshima (approx. 9hrs), arrive around 9am, where then I will proceed to see the WWII monument for the nuclear bombing. Then I will take the tram to the ferry which will take me to the island of Miyajima. It is suppose to be one of the three most beautiful places to visit in Japan. I am sure you will recognize some of the scenary when I post the pictures later.

The ryokan I am staying at is suppose to be very nice and includes breakfast and dinner. There is also an onsen (public bath,, like a hot tub) of which I can use. I am VERY excited about this trip as the classmates here has confirmed that it is a definite-must to visit.

Since I am only here for 2 months, I have to take the opportunity to travel as soon as I can. Otherwise, I really don't know what the possibilites are for me to travel once school gets busy!

The last few days have been laid back. I find the I am actually quite tired from the site seeing and walking around the city. Guess I am getting OLD! More updates to come once classes starts the coming Thurs. Cheers.

Sakura, Sakura...

2008-04-02T06:04:00.004-04:00

So far, I've been to 2 of the best spots to view cherry blossoms in Nagoya. They are indeed beautiful, I am so happy that I am in Japan at this time of the year!

Some first impressions of Japan...people generally are very polite and helpful. Japan of course is very clean and neat. That includes the way the grocery check-out ladies pack your basket after they scan the items! Food of course is excellent and there are many affordable places to eat as long as you don't have dietary restrictions and are willing to eat local. On the downside, people in Nagoya are quite conservative and reserved. They follow rules strictly and definitely do not cross any lines. In general, processes and procedures here are very complicated and paper-based. Some of the immigration procedures required for us "Aliens" are downright unneccesary in my opinion. Thank goodness I am here for less than 90 days, or else I would have to do the paperwork that all the exchange students would have to do! This is actually very surprising to me as Japan's technology is years ahead of many of the western world.

I am enjoying my week here so far, we will see what happens when class starts next week. For now, enjoy some sakura pictures.

Pics of my Digs

2008-03-27T20:53:00.006-04:00

Here we go,...some pics to update those not on Facebook. Check out my mini-apartment. Really, it's only a room!

First Day in Nagoya

2008-03-26T15:20:00.002-04:00

Today I officially moved into my new home for 2 months. It is a small room, approximately 300 sq ft, with a murphy bed, kitchenette, bathroom and balcony. Though small, it is well laid out and I must say I am happy with my temporary home.

I arrived at the apartment around 1 pm and met 3 other exchange students. They are from a school in Burgundy, France....the type of MBA programs that continues from a BA degree. So needless to say, they are much younger than me. However, they are well travelled and very friendly people so I don't feel that there is a huge age gap.

There are suppose to be 2 more students that has arrived from Poland but I have yet seen them. In any case, we will be having an orientation this Saturaday, so I will get to meet everybody then.

It is 4:30am in the morning and I'm awake. I'm not sure if it is the MSG that woke me up or my body is still struggling with the jetlag. I actually didn't sleep at all the previous night so I should be really knocked out today. Good thing I have a few more days to adjust before school starts. I will enjoy the few days ahead while I settle into my apartment.

Sorry, no pictures yet, have been lazy with that, will post some of the apartment soon.

2 Days to take-off

2008-03-21T23:18:00.003-04:00

I am mostly settled at my mom's now and am almost all packed up for my trip. I took some time this week to catch up with friends and family before heading away for another 2 months or so. It's been hectic trying to get everything I wanted done in a week's time.

On top of it all, this week's been clouded over by some unnecessary drama. So ready to leave it all behind and embark on new adventures in Japan! Wish me luck!

I would like to congratulate Jocelin on getting her French citizenship! Tres bien mon cheri!

Out of Kingston

2008-03-16T20:13:00.002-04:00

Today I officially moved out of Kingston. Everything I don't need has been moved to storage, however, that still means 6 rubbermaid bins worth of clothes. :p

I am VERY tired. Didnt' sleep well last night cuz I spent the night in Kingston back on the air mattress. (and I had to share it with my moving helper)

I also moved my sofa to my buyer (friend) last night, so that took a lot out of me. Yes, I'm a total weakly now that I've lost so much weight.

I have 1 week before I fly out to Japan for my 2-month exchange! But there is SO much to be done before that...I better make a list before I forget about it all!

Next post will probably have you seeing some pics from Nagoya. :D

Second Round Not as Successful

2008-02-26T20:42:00.003-05:00

I've been receiving "odd" responses to my TV listing on Craigslist. The latest has to do with a full-on SCAM.

This person wants to purchase my TV (32" tube with stand) from Iowa and wants to have it shipped to them via Fedex. The procedure this person proposed is that they wire me the money and all I have to do is drop off the TV at the designated "shipper" and the shipping will be taken care of.

First of all, Criagslist is for LOCAL transactions, second of all, who the heck would want to have a 170lbs TV Fedexed? With the stand, it's over 200lbs!

So I politely emailed back and said this is cash transaction and direct pickup only. This person proceeds to say they don't have the money right now and is willing to wire me the money first then I can arrange for shipment.

So if you don't have the cash, what the hell are you wiring me?
Do people really go for such scams?
Does Fedexing something over 200lbs even make sense?!

New Year, yet not so New Post

2008-02-18T16:44:00.002-05:00

It's definitely been a while since I last posted. Holidays have always been a difficult time for me, perhaps b/c there's never really a "holiday" season for my family. Having no extended family in the country will do that to you.

Anyway, it's now Feb and it's been 2008 for a while now, even chinese new year has already passed. What's in store for me this year? As one of my good friend said, I hope for an excellent 2008 with a new job, new love and perhaps maybe even a new country? (mmmm....)

I'm now in the last 3 weeks of my electives, and then I will be off to my exchange for 2 months in Japan. There are MANY things to tie up before I can leave for my trip, I hope everything will run smoothly! Most of my furniture have been sold off, I hope the rest will move just as fast. (I love Craigslist!)

For those of you that I haven't kept in contact with (sorry!), I wish you a fabulous new year!

Holidays...

2007-12-24T00:49:00.000-05:00

So far, I've spent my holiday making X'mas gifts for friends. Baking is a lot of work but I'm glad that most ppl enjoyed the fruits of my labour. =)

Between the baking, visits and cookie deliveries, I feel more tired than being back in school! I will have to take the next 2 weeks to seriously destress before school starts back up in Jan.

On a good note, out team won the Capstone Simulation contest. Our firm out-performed all other firms in the simulation, with the highest financial metrics and best long-term growth and strategy. Finally,...we won something!

I wish all my friends a happy holiday and a great new year!

People and Religion

2007-12-08T23:18:00.000-05:00

Religion can mean so many different things to each individual.

To some, it is this hidden beacon that keeps them centred and focused.

To others, it is merely a slogan that hangs at the end of their every sentence. (these are the people that claim "god" or whoever they believe in is with them b/c certain things happened the way they did)

URGH! Can't STAND those ppl! Basically, god has "shown" them or "saved" them or "insert action here" them through everything. Has god told you that you are still a selfish/arrogant person? You think talking about god or following certain religious acts will save you from all the intentional "mistakes" you've made?

PUH-LEASE.

1 Down, 1 to Go

2007-11-26T23:18:00.000-05:00

Handed in the "easy" paper to the admin today. It's due Friday so she was shocked that I'm handing it today. It's done, I don't want to look at it anymore, so just hand it in!

I drove home after the morning exam and procrastinated for a few hours. I'm allowed a little procrastination time! I started to do more reading and research tonight, then will have to read everything I pulled tomorrow morning. My eyes are going to bleed by the time I'm done. Wish me luck in completing the paper before Friday....then I can have some extra time off. :D

Module 6 - classes complete

2007-11-24T11:24:00.000-05:00

Yay! Done with the looong module! I have 2 papers to hand-in for Friday and then I will have a "free" weekend!

There was a ic pellet/freezing rain storm this week...and now it's actually nice fulffy snow that's coming down. Wow, snow in November...haven't had that for a few years!

Now,...if I can just need to get my arse in gear to get them papers done....*sigh*

Countdown has started...

2007-11-20T13:54:00.001-05:00

3 1/2 more weeks! With 1 week with no school...so technically only 2 1/2 more weeks of classes!

Can't wait!

Try'n real hard....

2007-11-13T21:18:00.001-05:00

Too much truth has come out in the past couple of months and it's been very hard to stay focused and centered. I must say, what's happened in September has affected me more than I'm willing to admit. I'm now 15lbs lighter than when I first started the program and I hope it doesn't continue! (b/c pants are falling off me!)

I am trying to clear my head for the next month before I go home for the holidays. Four and a half weeks left and it'll be a new beginning come January with the electives courses.

X'mas is coming soon and our band is prepping for a holiday set for the class. I hope it will go as well or better this run!

It will be a quiet holiday this year. No "family" turkey dinner with the seniors. I will miss them.

Thank you everyone.

2007-10-28T01:12:00.000-04:00

I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone that's supported me through the past month. It's been difficult and turbulent but it was made much easier with everyone's wise words and show of support.

It's shown me how lucky I am to have such a support system. I already have all the love I need. =)

Loneliness Has Set In

2007-10-24T00:14:00.001-04:00

Having been in love for 4 years and then suddenly not has created this sense of loss and loneliness. There is so much going on around me yet I can't shake this feeling. It's time to regroup and refocus my energy.

You can't handle the truth!

2007-10-09T08:42:00.000-04:00

People who can't handle the truth often think that others can't either. So they lie and hide the truth which most of the time will cost more harm than good. When such behaviours backfire, one should look at why they behaved the way they did and learn to give and receive critique. After all, no one is perfect and we should be looking at ways to improving ourselves.

HOWEVER, when one perceives that they can continue to resent and blame other parties for their own behaviours and actions, then you are just an irresponsible brat. You can change the way others treat you by changing the way you treat people or do as you did; make a bunch of excuses to justify your bad behaviour and actions to make yourself feel better.

Please action responsibly.

Twidling my Thumbs...

2007-10-04T09:53:00.001-04:00

I'm on a small break now, classes starts again Tues after Thanksgiving weekend.

It feels VERY weird to have NOTHING to do! I have all this free time now to do...nothing!

Well, not exactly nothing...have to put together another cover letter and I'm finally doing some pleasure reading. End of Food. You won't want to eat after reading that book.

Loving the break...

2007-10-01T19:18:00.000-04:00

It's CSR week and there isn't any REAL work! We have 3 days off this week and with the Thanksgiving weekend, it's going to be hard getting back into the groove of things with the next module!

Another milestone made

2007-09-25T21:10:00.000-04:00

Today ends another module for the program. Woohoo!

A few of us celebrated by having a Swim Club meeting at the lake, a few drinks, chicken wings and nachos! Yeah!

Now, a week of "Current Business Issues". *sigh*

What do we all really want in life?

2007-09-24T17:11:00.000-04:00

Do we really know what we want?
And in the process of finding out, can we do it without hurting those around us?

In this road call Life, do we all know where we're heading?

Think She is Bi-Polar

2007-09-10T20:53:00.000-04:00

I have crazy neighbours. This couple fights just about every other day. You would hear them being cheery and going fine, then minutes later you would hear her cursing on top of her lungs.

And the door slamming! I've been fantasizing about cutting their hands off so they can't slam the bloody door no more.....

Very distracting when you're studying for a quiz that's happening 8:30am tomorrow.

muthatruckas!

All Hail Procrastination!

2007-09-05T20:52:00.000-04:00

It's happeneing again. But the funny thing is, maybe because I've gotten a hang of things (as in I have a handle of the work load now) that I just think I have more time that there actually is....

We'll see if I'm blowing the same horn on the weekend...

The Stress is ON

2007-09-04T22:20:00.001-04:00

Haven't slept well and waking up w/ jaw pains. Why? Because I've been grinding my teeth in my sleep. I may not feel the stress when I'm awake, but my body is certainly telling me that I am!

Only a few more weeks and this module will be over. I can't wait!

A few of us are looking at doing some last of the season wreck diving in Kingston after this module...definitely looking forward to do that.

Women With Balls Get Bad Rep

2007-08-29T22:10:00.000-04:00

Story of my life.

Men with balls, that are direct, don't allow for BS and tell things like it is are "go-getters", "strong", "take-charge", "gutsy" and "bold".

Women on the other hand, are automatically labelled as "bitches".

Double standard? Hell yeah.

I'm proud to be a bitch.

Too much relaxation, not enough work done.

2007-08-19T22:52:00.000-04:00

I was invited to go up to a classmate's cottage this weekend. It was in a great lake front location, quiet and private. Unfortunately, it was a little too cold this weekend for long soaks in the lake but I still managed to take a quick dip. The cottage however didn't help my current state of procrastination.

...actually kinda glad the weather is changing,...take my mind off on how I've totally missed the summer activities....

Then it was gone....

2007-08-14T21:23:00.001-04:00

SUMMER.

Came and left Kingston in a matter of weeks. Coming week's forecast are for low 20s only. =(

Skydiving weekend

2007-08-13T13:11:00.000-04:00

There were 22 of us from the class that went skydiving this weekend (tandem jumps only) What an adrenalin rush! Some of the men in the class asked if I was "scared". Why would I be doing this if I was scared? Perhaps they were? Kekekekeee....

Prior to the videographer opening the plane door, I was literally grinning and clapping my hands like a little kid! I was REALLY excited about jumping out of a plane. What an awesome experience! I can't explain it to you, you just have to do for yourself to know what it feels like.

The Results are In!

2007-08-09T10:10:00.001-04:00

Last module's marks are out! I'm happy with the marks I got so far. :D

Real classes start tomorrow....Business Decision Modelling. *ick*

Back to K-Town

2007-08-06T18:10:00.000-04:00

The weekend didn't pan out exactly as I planned but I did manage to do most of the things on the list.

I'm checking the upcoming schedule and I don't know,...it kinda looks "empty". There are lots of days with no classes...not sure what's going on there. Let's hope those days don't get filled in later!

Another module, another new start. Wish me luck.

Holiday moving too fast!

2007-08-02T23:32:00.000-04:00

It's already Thurs and I feel that I need more time to "recover". Will be heading back to Kingston Monday night with a classmate who will most likely be trashed from the Blue Jay vs Yankee game. (I offered to drive so she can get pissed during the game.)

I'm meeting a few ex-coworkers tomorrow for lunch,then a massage and a nice dinner at home. Sat will be drinks with a friend and hopefully watching The Simpsons in the evening. Then Sunday will be some free time during the day and then Ribfest in the evening! Ummm...Ribs....

*sigh* Wish this was last Thurs...Doh!

It Stinks!

2007-07-24T19:41:00.001-04:00

I was just happily studying along when I saw my landlord with a shuffle standing outside my kitchen window. I looked out and saw a skunk to the left of my window, it looked dead.

I opened the window to see what she was up to. She was standing there trying to figure out how to dispose of the animal. I was pretty sure it was dead but she wasn't sure if was or not so she's hesitating to scoop it up.

I told her I would help her out, so I went outside, picked up a few big pieces of rocks and threw it at the body. Oh, it was dead alright. Flies were flying all over the corpse! She then picked it up with the shovel... as she did that, I can clearly see the skunk's face. EEEeeeeee.....Pepe was looking like a stuffed piece of hunted animal...it was stiff. (yeah, dead stiff) I was really grossed out! I normally wouldn't think that I would be so disgusted by something like this, but it turns out I am really freaked with small dead animals!

ICK! I need to go shower now.

On a good note, 2nd exam went well this morning. :)

1 Down, 2 To Go

2007-07-23T13:02:00.000-04:00

Finished 1 exam this morning, 1 more tomorrow, another on Thurs,...then it's holiday for a week! Can't wait for the next 3 days to fly by.

On my week off, I will be visiting family, sleeping and basically be stuffing my FACE. I should find out how much weight I've lost since the program started....I estimate 1 dress size.

Coming to a Close

2007-07-16T23:57:00.000-04:00

This module is coming to a close REAL fast. Only 2 more classes this week and classes will be officially finished for Module 3. Exams on Monday, Tuesday and Thursday of next week. Plus, we have some assignments to finish up before then. *sigh*

No classes tomorrow, so it will be hardcore study time...Management Accounting, I'm going to make you weep!

Lesson 4

2007-07-11T23:53:00.000-04:00

If you want to Lead, you need to 1)Prove yourself and then 2) Get Buy-in.

You've done neither.
So please don't "suggest" that I perform tasks that are just a waste of my time.

And when I stick it to you that you are a selfish, spineless worm, don't change your stance. (See I am right, you are spineless.)

You are so easy to bully you little bitch.

Lotsa work but still managable

2007-07-09T18:36:00.000-04:00

I am counting down the weeks to our 1-week holiday! 2 more weeks of classes and then 3 final exams, all ending on the 26th.

Man, will I be partying on night of the 26th!!!

Otherwise, things are basically a bore...classes, homework, assignments, group projects....

Bedbugs - treatment No.2

2007-07-01T00:05:00.000-04:00

I mopped the floors and baseboard with bleach, sprayed the floors, mattress and box with bug spray (twice!) and tomorrow will be a dose of insect powder.

Let's hope it all works and I can get back to sleeping on the bed. :(

Lesson 3

2007-06-26T19:37:00.000-04:00

Don't dish it if you can't take it.

Lesson 2

2007-06-22T23:01:00.001-04:00

Being the Lead doesn't mean you have all the control. You only have as much control as the team would allow. Letting it get to your head will cause sever consequences.

Lesson 1

2007-06-20T22:54:00.000-04:00

Recognize differences and find ways to work with it. If you are not satisfied with the way things are going because no one is listening to you, maybe you should evaluate WHY no one is listening to you.....maybe YOU are the problem?

Apparantly, you can't freeze carrots/turnip

2007-06-17T22:27:00.000-04:00

A few weeks back when Neil came to visit, he bought me 2 soup packs from the grocery store. For those of you who don't what a soup pack is, it's a pre-packaged set of ingredients for making chinese soup. It will include some sort of meat and vegetables/herbs.

I wasn't going to make 2 pots of soup in 1 week so I put one of them in the freezer. I finally ran out of food and decided to make the soup today. Did you know that carrots and turnips turn soft after defrosting? It was soggy, as if it's already been cooked!

The cooked product was overly soft. It was kind of a weird texture, but edible none less.

Weird.

Good Weekend

2007-06-11T12:42:00.000-04:00

I actually had lots of activities this weekend. Went out w/ a few classmates on Friday for some beers and much not-needed "dancing" at a local club (discotheque). It was so bad that I don't even want to describe it.

Sat evening, we had dinner at a friend's and watched Ocean's 13. It was fun, but I say you can wait for the DVD release.

Sunday was a speed reading session at school (only 4 hours). After that, a few of us hit the gym (yes, me at the gym!) and had a quick dinner after.

In between all that, I still managed to fit in some schoolwork.

A well-balanced weekend. :D

However, I can't say the same for those that were leading this project that was due this morning. Thank you for all the hardwork guys!

Stay AWAY from the Satellites/Button Pushers

2007-05-27T21:53:00.000-04:00

I found them, found them ALL.

Just get the funk away from me, I'm too old for this crap.

MBA, SchMBA

2007-05-25T00:20:00.001-04:00

Student Council elections, it brings out the "best" of those who wants to be elected....

this feels like high school

On the other hand, I really bonded with someone tonight. Finally, someone who's on the same page....

Two and a half weeks later....

2007-05-21T09:30:00.000-04:00

It's been a while, mostly because the program keeps me busy! Not that it's hardcore busy right now, but I'm still getting used to having to do more work when I come home from school! It is still very managable at the moment, I'm a realist...I'm not going to kill myself over trying to get EVERYTHING done!

First Day of School

2007-05-02T21:22:00.000-04:00

First day was a tiring day. Lots of forced mingling and introductions. We find out about our assigned teams tomorrow. :S

From tomorrow on, 8:30am everyday! I miss work....

THE highlight of my trip

2007-04-30T22:10:00.000-04:00

Some pictures that attempt to justify the grandeur of Iguazu Falls...

Holidays, move and closing...all happening very fast

2007-04-30T18:03:00.000-04:00

It's been a little while since I've posted...I'm back from my holidays and have moved to Kingston already. With the help of Neil and Bob....hahaa..did you just get that one?

Neil stayed last night and left early this morning, returning the truck and returning keys to my place for closing tomorrow.

He's been great help and pushed me to unpack as much as we can yesterday such that I can have 2 relatively relaxing days before school begins. I will miss him lots...I know I will probably not have time to do so, but I will! :)

Rants

2007-04-13T06:44:00.000-04:00

I was on the streetcar last night and overheard (not eavesdropping!) 3 ppl talking about their commute to work. All were basically complaining about how much time it takes to go to work. The couple within the group said that they drive to the subway station then subway downtown for work. It takes them about 1 1/2 hr to commute each way! Then they proceeded to calculate why they still choose to take the subway vs. driving downtown. (and trust me, it has nothing to do with driving less => being green)

Move closer to work or find another job up in la-la land. You've made your bed, now lie in it and stop complaining.

Moving 28th-29th

2007-04-10T21:58:00.000-04:00

I got a message from the current tenant saying that they be out of the unit by the 22nd. That means I will get to move in the weekend before school starts! Yay!

Now that I know what the schedule is, there will be no more procrastination. Everything needs to be packed before I leave for my trip!

It's all happening very fast! Very exciting!!!

Officially Unemployed

2007-04-02T20:47:00.000-04:00

Don't worry, don't worry, it's only for a month before school starts when I will officially be a student again!

Today, I spent a relaxing day doing some grocery shopping, packing and re-organizing. Now the house looks like a mess. Think I did TV-watching the most... :p

Farewell Lunch and Gift

2007-03-29T16:30:00.001-04:00

My co-workers took me out to an "Appreciation" lunch today. I also received a shopping mall gift card from the team. (Thank you , thank you!)

Finally, I get something back for 8+ years of wedding and baby gifts I've contributed to!

One more day and it's Sayonara....

More homework and school hasn't even started!

2007-03-26T14:19:00.000-04:00

Received another Fedex package from Queen's this morning. More readings to do prior to the start of school. But what's different is that this set of readings is actually needed for the first week of school. The package also included the first class' outline and assignment schedule. There are assignments due after the first week!

These ppl are serious when they said it's going to be a hectic year!

Packing has started...slowly.

2007-03-25T19:20:00.000-04:00

I started packing some clothes away this weekend in preparation for Kingston. This morning, I tried out the bubble wrap on some picture frames...bubble wrap is so awesome!

Packed up some DVDs, some shoes and some more items for Goodwill..there is still so much more to pack!!! This coming week is my last week at work, after that, it will be fulltime packing until I go on my 10-day holiday to Argentina and Brazil.

Last week at work! I can't believe this is finally happening! Very exciting, yet at the same time, kind of sad. I have been with this company 8+ years afterall.

Goodbye, good luck and all the best.

Fun with Religion

2007-03-21T17:06:00.000-04:00

http://www.mrdeity.com/

Check it out!
I personally like episode 2 the best....plus Jesse is HOT.

Announced my Departure

2007-03-14T15:55:00.000-04:00

I announced my departure to the internal and external teams yesterday. I recieved lots good wishes from my customer contacts. Kinda made me sad...just a little bit...okay, maybe for 2 seconds.

I have started a countdown. 12 more working days left!

My mom and I signed up for a 10-day holiday to Argentina and Brazil for April. This means I have 10 less days to pack up and organize my stuff. I also have those prep courses to do for school before that starts...time is just slipping away!

I better get started...

First week w/ Neil moved out

2007-03-08T14:10:00.000-05:00

To get started on his new routine, Neil decided to start sleeping over at his new place this week. The reason for the expedited schedule is because of the new gym that he will be working for. Neil will be a personal trainer at The Granite Club. Congratulations honey!!!

http://www.graniteclub.com/

It's not on the subway line so for him to get to work from our place will be another 30mins of transit...not so good for those 6:30am sessions.

It seems that both Neil and I are off to a running start this year. Things have definitely been going our way and I wish it will continue for the rest of the year!

Hate this say this, but I've been sleeping like a baby with the bed all to myself. :p

Shouldn't this be time to reflect?

2007-03-01T12:07:00.000-05:00

Upon reading this article, I realize that no one truely understands our reliance on fossil fuels. http://www.thestar.com/News/article/186979

This shortage should trigger us to see how important it is to find and improve renewable sources of energy. Should trigger us to think about ditching those gas guzzling vehicles.
Should trigger us to walk, cycle or take public transit when we can...or simply work from home!

Best Picture and Direction given to a CopyCat movie?!

2007-02-26T14:52:00.000-05:00

I was utterly disappointed and almost angry as I watched the Oscars last night. How can the academy give THAT piece of crap "adapted" movie (I'm calling it a movie, it ain't no film!) the best picture award? And best direction?

If you have yet watched the original (Infernal Affairs). Watch it and you will understand why I feel this way!

All that Drama

2007-02-19T14:03:00.000-05:00

I didn't want to jinx anything so I didn't post updates about my sale until the last condition is waived. My agent called me about 2 hours ago to tell me there might be a problem w/ my unit's status, but it turned out it was the purchasing lawyer's mistake. *whew*!

It's SOLD! I had 5 offers on Tuesday night and 3 came in above my asking price. One of the offers had good price so I just signed on the dotted line.

Lots of snow Tues/Wed so things (Status Certificate and deposit delivery) were delayed by a day.

Closing is May 1st.

I also found an apartment in Kingston this weekend for May 1st. One bedroom basement apartment for $680, utilities included. It's a basement unit but has big windows and lots of light, so it doesn't feel like you're in a basement.
Plus my landlady is super sweet!
Thank you Serica for accompanying me on the day trip, was great to have a local guide!

Open House - Success or Bust?

2007-02-12T12:47:00.000-05:00

As mentioned before, I was holding Open House this weekend. Prior to Saturdays' Open House, I had viewing appointments from 10am until 2pm. The last appointment prior to the Open House held my keys hostage until 3pm! That agent said he left his phone in the car and so no one could reach him to get him to return the keys. Saturday's session only ended up being 40 mins. But still, there were about 30 ppl that came through the door.

Yesterday's Open House was a little better. My agent's helper was late 30mins as he was getting a speeding ticket. Luckily, I was at home, so I was able to open doors for the 4 parties that came through during that time.

So far 5 more viewings today. Offers are going to be presented tomorrow night at 7pm. Wish me luck! I hope I don't have to do anymore showings after tomorrow night!

8 viewings in 1 day?!

2007-02-09T12:58:00.000-05:00

Today's got to be the record breaking day.
8 appointments for viewing!
10:15-10:45
13:00-13:30
13:30-14:15
17:45-18:30
18:30-19:00
19:00-19:30
19:30-20:00
20:00-20:30

Listed today

2007-02-07T20:12:00.000-05:00

Pictures were taken and paperwork was signed today. Listing came out late afternoon and immediately, 2 appointments were made for viewings. One actually happened tonight!

There are so far 2 appointments for tomorrow. I'm holding an Open House for both Sat. and Sun. 2-4pm. Offers being accepted on the following Tues. Wish me luck!!!

http://www.be-at-home.com/weekly.asp?id=205

Getting ready for sale is hard work.

2007-02-04T21:12:00.000-05:00

Friday and Saturday was spent cleaning, packing and reorganizing the unit so my agent can provide suggestions for improvements. He came by Saturday afternoon to also provide me information on sales information in the surrounding area.

So my job now is to get the place ready Wednesday for pictures and sign the paperwork to get it listed. Next weekend is Open House! I still have a carload of bins to move out of the unit...good thing I can work from home. :)

Neil will be checking a place out tomorrow...I hope it works out because if it does, we can move his bins straight to his new place!

Listed at 329,900, sold at 329,000?!

2007-01-31T13:17:00.000-05:00

EXACT same unit as mine, but 1 floor below sold at this price in December.

2007 IS a great year!

And the winner is!......

2007-01-27T21:17:00.000-05:00

Queen's School of Business!

I finally did receive a response back from the Ambassadors at Rotman about a visit on Wed. night. I responded immediately Thurs. morning and once again, haven't received a response before week's end. I suppose it will take them another week before they respond to me.

I honestly don't think the Rotman class experience will tip the scale enough for me to choose them over Queen's, so I decided not to wait for them to set me up for a class anymore.

I sent in my confirmation and deposit to Queen's today.

I would like to take this opportunity to thank those of you that has supported me through this entire application process. Especially those that's given me tips and insider information on how to "sell" myself. Thank you, thank you!

Having made my final decision now, I have much to do before school starts. It starts May 2nd!

Queen's - Admit!

2007-01-24T21:21:00.000-05:00

I received a phone call from the Admissions Director this evening! Personally calling me to let me know the committee decided that I am a good fit for their program!

The admissions package will arrive in a few days.

On the other hand, I have yet received an invite for the class visit I requested for Rotman. Umm...should I even bother with them anymore?....

First relaxed weekend

2007-01-21T22:48:00.000-05:00

Since I started my journey to pursue an MBA, every weekend has been either full of studying for the GMAT or reviewing and writing applications and essays. (Or when I procrastinated, I was feeling guilty about it.)

This is the first weekend for a long time that I didn't have to *THINK* about it anymore. I have an admit from at least 1 school...(hopefully, Queen's will come through for me this week) Going back to school this year is now a fact, no longer wishful thinking!

VIA1 rocks!

2007-01-16T22:08:00.000-05:00

Toronto => Kingston

Includes drinks and snacks, full 3 course meal (choice of 3 mains that all sounded pretty good), after dinner liqueur and sweets. All alcoholic drinks inclusive.

Then arrive to a nice and cozy B&B for the night. What a terrific start to an interview/school visit session! If all else fails, at least I got a great visit in Kingston!

If the program is like the way they've taken care of me thus far...their program is pretty tempting!

Congratulations from the University of Toronto, Rotman School of Management

2007-01-15T21:52:00.000-05:00

Wootwoot!

The pressure is off now! Wed's interview will be breeze.

Rotman Interview done

2007-01-09T17:00:00.000-05:00

It was this morning, I was a lot more confident w/ this meeting.
I definitely felt more comfortable this time.
I will leave it at that.

Many ppl ask how I did; honestly, it is hard to say when all the interviewers are friendly and smiling at you throughout the entire process! (them and their poker faces!) It will be a few weeks before I hear anything from them. In the meantime, I will prepare for Queen's interrogation next week.

Don't think I've sent out my wishes to everyone yet. So here goes!

I wish everyone a fantastic new year. May all your wishes come true!

Right Lane is the new Passing Lane

2007-01-04T11:30:00.000-05:00

First week of work is a little slow as expected. Many folks are still off work as kids don't go back to school until the 8th.

There are of course less traffic on the morning commute. However, it doesn't mean that bad drivers are not on the road.

Today on the highway to work, I once again used the most right lane as the passing lane.

No, I don't live in Britain, or any British commonwealth locations. Driver's seat is on the left and we use the right side of the road!

On another note, the weather has been chaiotic lately. It's Jan. and we are still well above the freezing mark. It is nice and warmer but at the same time, you know this is not a good sign.

Call your politicians about Global Warming!

Thank you Mr. Gore

2006-12-28T11:18:00.000-05:00

Finally had the opportunity to watch The Inconvenient Truth.

I suggest everyone who hasn't watched the movie to please watch it.

especially those who drives a gas guzzling SUV, watch it.

And those who think we should continue to develop the fossil fuel industry, watch it.

Watch it; then realize how backwards, uneducated and stupid the US government and media is. That's right, "Freedom" to oil in exchange for the Planet.

It's a D*ck in a Box!

2006-12-21T10:19:00.000-05:00

I almost died laughing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLb0w8-HG_0

Invite to Interview and a day on campus - Queen's

2006-12-19T02:18:00.000-05:00

It is good to know that I didn't screw up my OTHER chances. I have a meeting with the Assistant Director and a few students in Jan. as part of my application process. So I have a few weeks to prepare for this interview and hopefully not screw this one up as well. :(

Today, I also emailed Rotman again to see where my application is within their process. Normally I would not think it should take this long for a school to provide you with an initial response. Maybe my app got lost in the shuffle?

I hope to get to work on another application during the holiday downtime. This process is never-ending...

That was quick.

2006-12-15T00:39:00.000-05:00

Well, I didn't have to wait until January to find out what Ivey's decision is. Answer is no.

Rejected.

I better start working on more applications...

Ivey Interviews done

2006-12-12T14:56:00.000-05:00

Man, what a brutal process. After the application, essays and interviews, now it's time to wait. I was told I should recieve an answer first week of January at the latest. Let's hope I receive a big package in the mail! I still have not received a thing from Rotman. I probably won't since there's been so many mishaps with my application. :p

Queen's app is coming very close. I just have to do a final review on the cover letter and I think it's ready for submission.

Let the waiting game begin...

Winter is here, oh how I miss the warm weather

2006-12-05T14:38:00.000-05:00

It is HERE.

Temperature is suppose to go up a little in the next few days, with daytime high of 2-4 celsius or so. Today is high of 2C but morning temp of -10C or so with the windchill factor.

This weather gets me thinking about my warm holiday at East Malaysia. As usual, you get to meet great divers across the globe. Dave and Vicky, an english couple from our boat (very good divers), sent me their website w/ some of the underwater photos they took on the trip. If you have time, check them out!
http://myweb.tiscali.co.uk/dvlcom/travel/borneo06/index.htm

I actually started looking at a dive holiday in Cozumel...there is one in Jan organized by a local dive operator....but...but...I was just ON a holiday! Very tempting...

Back to Life, Back to Reality

2006-11-28T14:49:00.000-05:00

After a month's break (from work and blog :p), I am back!

Photos will follow soon,..just a quick re-cap on my "holiday".

- Went diving in Sipadan, Malaysia - saw the infamous Barracuda Funnel.
- Skipped Taipei as diving trip killed off any desires to be on another airplane.
- Items purchased - LG Chocolate Bar, 3 pairs of shoes, work clothes and souvenirs.
- Visited Bo Lin Buddha, The Peak, Macau, HK Historic Museum (which displays pictures of my family's village!) and many shopping centres.
- Had 2 fresh water crab dinners (Dai Jab Hai) and 1 fresh seafood dinner. :q
- Attended Mayze's wedding. (best wedding food ever!)
- Number of forms of transportation taken: 10
- Scheduled 2 interviews (had 1 today)
And of course, met up w/ relatives, aunts, uncles, grandmas, etc...

Now if only I can have another week off to recover from my holiday.

Here's a pic of the folks we dived with...

Only a few more days!

2006-10-25T15:20:00.000-04:00

Vacation date is coming close...starting to get excited! 4 weeks off, woohoo!

I just need to close the Rotman application before I leave. Ivey's submitted.

Then I need to compile 3 packing lists, 1 for HK, 1 for the wedding and 1 for diving...just to make sure I don't miss anything!

Rainy Days...

2006-10-17T15:26:00.000-04:00

Raining ALL day today...blah weather!

I was just told that my original backup for my holidays may not be available so I may have to look at training someone else to back me up for the 4 weeks I'm gone. Dammit!

I confirmed w/ UWO that they have received my transcript request. Ryerson has also started processing the request since they cashed my cheque already. So, just 1 more "essay" (more like a paragraph, 250 words?!) for Rotman then I have 2 apps ready to go....man,..it's draining to BS.

Kicked arse on AWA

2006-10-13T17:26:00.000-04:00

I didn't wait for the 24hrs as the GMAT report notification advised and the website still gave me a report. (it says it'll be available tomorrow)

Anyway, my full marks are out and sent to the schools now, which means I can start submitting the full applications when I'm ready. (Ryerson also cashed my cheque for the transcripts so those are on their way.) I think I've completed my Ivey application, that is essays, resumes and everything. I just need my editor, aka Neil, to read it over before hitting the "Submit" button.

On another happy note, I got 5/6 on the Analytical Writing portion of the test. Which is so awesome b/c most ppl I've talked to usually get a 3 or 3.5 on that piece! kakakakaaa...so I may not be a genius in analyzing math questions but I can analyze an argument and write about it pretty damn effectively!

Mean score for the test out of 622,975 test takers is 526.6. I got above 600, so I'm pretty happy at the moment. :D

Brrrr...what happened to Fall weather?

2006-10-13T14:43:00.000-04:00

50 cm of snow fell in Buffalo yesterday, apparantly, they are in a state of emergency. (and I was freak'n out last night when I saw some flurries!)
It was 2 degrees this morning when I went to work...high of only 7 today.

Been real busy lately,..trying to get the applications stuff together, then wedding, Thanksgiving and mid-autumn fest. I finally got my official test score notification so I can finish up the application form part of the process. There are however still so very many essays to write. *sigh*

On a good note, I'm on vacation countdown, 17 more days to go! That's only 2 more work weeks! woohoo!

More weddings to come...

2006-09-28T22:33:00.000-04:00

Double whammy today.
First I got invited to another wedding for next weekend, (sorry Daniel, you asked kinda late!) then I was informed that another pair of friends got engaged! (Mike and Debi, congrats!)

Anymore? Let's just get it all over with now....

Transcripts, resumes, essays oh my!

2006-09-27T11:55:00.000-04:00

Did a run through of the applications for the first 3 choices of school again this week. (I actually registered for the applications back in the summer. :p)

Sent off information to all my referees as well and one of them already finished all 3 forms!

Then gotta arrange for transcripts and do those bloody essays. Time to put on the BS cap.